How are we shaped?
This morning I put seed out for the birds (23 degrees – not too bad). Crunching along the deck I noticed this floe coming off of the deck railing. How did it becom
e curved? Why did it angle out as far from the wood as it did? Why did the composition look different in the top part of the floe?
I wondered about the things that shape us throughout life. The big things seem like the obvious answer, but I don’t think that’s what does it. Like this ice, it is the persistent, subtle influences that do the real shaping — factors I don’t even consider to be shapers: identifying as female, being white, born American, born middle class and midwestern, family beliefs about working hard and doing your “fair share,” etc.
How can I shift my viewpoint to gain a perspective as if outside of those factors? What will I see, feel, (and if I change the belief) experience?
